Dating Advice: Men’s Role In Dating
As we’ve stated in past articles, the dating scene for our ancestors (even as recent as our parents) was so much easier than it is for us these days (although we should also be thankful that there are many avenues for dating today like online dating web site). Roles were pretty much defined and there was no guess work regarding certain details of the whole courtship process. Nowadays though, women are acting like men, men are acting like women and nobody knows what the hell is expected of them and nobody knows what the hell to expect!
One of the questions that men most often ask themselves is if they should pay for dates or not. Should your woman pay for it? Let’s face it, many of you feel that if you’re giving up on a lot of the privileges of “manhood”, then why should you still have to perform all the duties right? In the end, you both have to work just as hard to earn your money, so why should she ride for free and you have to give up an arm and a leg to pay for an outing? We hear you!
So how do you go about discussing this without looking like a cheap bastard? We think it’s all in the way you go about approaching this woman. If you start out by saying something like “I’d love to take you to…”, for instance, then you are clearly stating you are in charge of the date, therefore, the message you are giving out is, it’s on you. If you, on the other hand, speak about this really cool place you’re going to, and matter-of-factly suggest that she’s welcome to tag along, then it’s a totally different setup.
You don’t want women seeing you as the guy who’ll always pay for everything, unless you are happy to pay for everything always. Although yes, paying will eventually get you some affection and might hookup with girls more, truth be it, attraction is not for sale…it’s either felt, or it’s not… and guess what? All you have to do is turn on the charm, ’cause it’s totally free!!
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